List of boundaries in dating

A girl with weak boundaries will immediately tell the guy that it isn't a strict requirement, and that he should just come anyway.A woman with medium boundaries won't bend on the requirement, but she might offer to help him find some neon clothes.The idea of the party is that anyone who attends has to wear all neon, and the girl knows that if she lets one person come in normal clothes, others will too, and the theme will be spoiled.

Some people draw their boundaries quite close to themselves, allowing others to infringe upon their personal world dramatically, without resistance.The person asking for donations is enthusiastic and persistent.If the girl has strong boundaries she will say "no" immediately, ignore the second request, and maybe even snap back "I said no! If the girl has medium boundaries she is likely to apologize and makes an excuse about not having any money on her, in order to avoid donating and compromising her beliefs.A girl with weak boundaries will first try to avoid the person asking for money altogether; but once she is asked, she will immediately give in, and actually donate a generous amount because she sees on the list that other people have done the same.Example 4 – A girl is throwing a neon-themed party, and wants to invite a guy she has a crush on.A woman with strong boundaries will smile, maybe throw in a wink or a nudge, and tell the guy that if he really wants to come, he will find a way to get something neon (she isn't going to let him ruin the party just because she likes him).

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