There may be some success stories – but if you’re forcing the idea on people that people should pick their dates based on appearance, you can’t expect people to successfully find true love. It’s personality that you’ve got to rely on forever.
And personally, I don’t think you can trust you’ll find a connection through an app where personality is kept safely in the background.
Basically, if your photo doesn’t prove to be a success, you may as well have filled your bio with the same flirty stuff as everyone else. While of course, there have been some Tinder successes – even my friend found love through the app, and has been in a relationship with the guy for nearly three years – this isn’t what happens for the majority of people.
We’ve heard loads of stories of how people have looked lovely on Tinder, but really weren’t their date’s cup of tea in person.
In fact, a third of recently married couples met online. Women are afraid men will kill them.”While it is true that straight women get more attention on dating sites than men, that doesn’t always mean it’s positive attention from safe potential partners Here’s what happened.
You must find the most flattering picture of yourself, a couple at least, in order not to be swiped left on because they found something better on the swipe before.Cue the countless messages from guys matching with you only to offer d*ck pics and asking for sexual photos in return.Sadly, sometimes this even comes before a simply ‘hello’ or a cheesy chat-up line.We’re sure that when Tinder was first released, it was done so with the idea that the app makers would pretty much be saving the dating world – helping people find love without having to go to bar after bar to find someone they fancy. The first thing questionable about the app is that you’re immediately judging someone on their profile photo before swiping left or right.They were ready to become cupid and they thought they’d had it mastered. This automatically puts into a person’s head that dating is only successful on immediate attraction.That’s more than enough to convince someone that perhaps the dating world isn’t really for them.