I haven't flexed that particular muscle in years, and I thought it would be fun to see if I, like Ralph Malph, still got it.
There were redundancy problems at work; my marriage was showing strains; and there was something large and unnameable missing from my life.What's so alluring about porn, or cybersex, that we cling to it in such massive numbers?Or is this just an obsession with the novelty of virtual sex, a rash of "addiction" that will wear itself out in the next few years?A core of regulars would form, resulting in either a welcoming environment for newbies or an exclusionary, clique-driven hierarchy, depending on where you went. But as one woman observed in the Sex Drive forum, chat has changed."At some time I cannot pinpoint," she says, "a set of people started using chat as a way to make the contact to meet or call others for sex, like it was one big pool of people waiting for an offer.... It's getting more and more difficult to find someone who'll type more than three words a line and actually spell out words."I looked, this past week, for good cyber.We've been talking about that in the forum, too.