The man at the grocery store who looked your wife up and down may not just be thinking about her being naked - he may be thinking about her being naked with his wife.While most swinging is about two couples sharing fun and swapping partners, many swingers regularly participate in threesomes.Looking for a couple with a bisexual female, between 35 and 40, within 20 miles?It's easy to find hundreds of them on the Internet.
The taboo that society places on everything it categorizes as "out of the norm" has kept both homosexuals and swingers in the closet. Perhaps in a few years, it will be the "in thing" to be a swinger.
If you lucked out and happened to live near a swingers club, it probably wasn't a very attractive or "upscale" place.
Today, the Life Style is evolving and becoming more mainstream.
For that reason, you can feel pretty secure that you won't be ratted out; we're all in the Life Style together.
I've personally run into swingers at work, at dinner, at a strip club, at a non-swinger party, at nude beaches and in many other places.
Of course neither of us told anyone, and we're now great friends as well as neighbors." Adult Swingers, or people in the Life Style don't often talk about their Life Style to others.